Blogging from the Heart

Saying Goodbye: The Beginning of a new Chapter

I think all parents have been there. Watching our little ones grow so quickly, feeling like the sand in the hour glass is slipping away faster and faster. I can't remember how many times I have said to my husband " I love this age! I wish she could stay like this forever!"

Now in reality I don't truly wish my children would remain frozen in a moment in time. Every stage has had its ups and downs, moments that I have cherished (and hopefully remembered captured on film) and moments I would like to erase from my memory (oh those long months of sleep deprivation!).

But recently I have come to a moment I am very much grieving and wishing for just one more month, one more week, one more day! My "baby," Malia (who is 16 months), has decided she is too big to do Salsa Babies with mommy. Now big is an exaggeration as Malia is very petite, about the size of most average 9-10 month olds, I am strong enough to dance with her for much longer. But developmentally Malia has taken a big step towards her independence as a toddler and decided she is not a "baby" and therefore will not tolerate, despite my best efforts, being worn in her Cosy Baby Happy Mommy wrap for the duration of a Salsa Babies class.

Now this isn't the first time I have experienced this. My oldest daughter, Bria, decided at about 18 months of age that she would much rather dance from the sidelines. But when Bria did not want to dance any longer Salsa Tots had just come out and I was excited to launch this new program with my tiny assistant, and also knew I was actively trying to conceive my next Salsa Baby. Within 2 months I had a tiny human being in my belly and as I joked with my moms, other then a wrap, the uterus was the BEST baby carrier on the market.

I also developed Salsa Bellies (our prenatal latin dance program) during my second pregnancy and enjoyed knowing the baby in my belly was learning and benefiting from the music and movement she experienced in-utero almost daily. My OB often joked that my baby would come out dancing and her first words would be "Cha cha cha!" All of these things combined to make the transition much easier. But this time is different. Malia will be our last baby. I know other than when one of my twin moms honors me with the gift of wearing one of her babies, I will be dancing without a partner.

Dancing with my girls has been some of my happiest moments with them. I have often come to tears thinking about the beauty of sharing dance and music with my baby. I look around my classes and see babies of all ages and stages, snuggled into their mom, kicking their feet to the beat, laughing and singing along to the music, or sweetly sleeping on their mother's breasts, lulled to sleep my the rhythmic swaying of hips and warmth and security of a mother's embrace. What a gift to give our children. What a gift to receive as mothers!

As someone who has danced through life, it is a passion that drives my soul. Dance is my safe place, a place I can always come back to when the weight of the world seems insurmountable. I can let all thoughts slip away, and just allow my body to instinctually move and breath with the music. To me, dance is the expression of the joy in my heart and I feel overwhelmingly blessed to have shared this with my girls.

I can't help but wish I could have just a few more classes to snuggle my little one and express my love for her through movement. I will openly admit to shedding more then a few tears over Malia's graduation from babies to tots. It is not just the end of our Salsa Babies time, but it is an end to the "baby" chapter in my life. It was during this time that I truly found myself and became confident and determined within myself. I have often thought, if I can be a mom I can be ANYTHING!

I sooth my sorrows in the knowledge that the end of this chapter marks the beginning of a new chapter, that I am sure will be filled with as much wonder and joy. I am thrilled to watch Malia bounce, stomp, twirl, and clap as she dances on her own two feet, and know she is experiencing the same elation I feel as I dance next to her. I am selfishly ecstatic in the moments Malia reaches her little arms up to me to communicate her desire for me to scoop her in my arms and sweep across the dance floor, even if these moment are only mere minutes in length. I am proud of my dedication to nurture not only her love of dance, but her complete being through the emotional bonding our months of dancing heart to heart created. And I am rewarded each class I teach in the knowledge I have been able to share this gift with other moms and babies.

So thank you to all the moms and babies over the past 3 years who have shared these wonderful, blissful moments with me and my girls. And thank you for letting me share the awesome gift of dance. I am truly grateful and inspired.

Name that Tune!

People often ask me about the great music they hear in our classes. I spend at least an hour a week online researching and buying new music. This keeps classes fun and exciting for you and me. So here is a listing of some of the songs on my IPod right now:

Salsa Babies/Salsa Burn:

  • Micaela by Sonora Carruseles
  • Mas Que Nada by Black Eyed Peas
  • Mi Mulata
  • Rhythms Del Mudo Cuba- Various Artists
  • Yamulemau by Joe Arroyo
  • La Vida Es un Carnaval by Celia Cruz
  • Get Low Merengue Remix
  • Cha Cha Heels by Rosabel Featuring Jeanie Tracy

Fit Hop:

  • I Gotta a Feeling/Meet Me Halfway/Rock that Body/Missing You by Black Eyed Peas
  • Way I Are by Timbaland
  • Sexy Chick by David Guetta
  • Hotel Room Service by Pittbull
  • Sugar by Thug Matrimony
  • Blah, Blah, Blah by Ke$ha
  • Morning After Dark by Timbaland Featuring Nelly Furtado
  • Shake by Ying Yang Twins
  • Right Round by Flo Rida
  • Get it Shawty by Lloyd

Naughty Hottie:

  • When I Grow up by The Pussycat Dolls
  • All Nite (Don't Stop) by Janet Jackson
  • I Got it From My Mama by Will I Am
  • Gimme More by Britney Spears
  • Tik Tok by Ke$ha
  • Love Game by Lady Gaga
  • Whatcha Say by Jason DeRulo

My Personal Playlist right now:

  • Beggin by Madcon
  • Bullet Proof by Le Roux
  • Hard by Rihanna
  • Empire State of Mind (Part II) BreakDown by Alicia Keys
  • Dum Diddley and Where is the Love by Black Eyed Peas
  • Little L by Jamiroquai
  • Show Me what I'm looking For by Carolina Liar

Keep checking back! I'll try to post new music listings every month or so!

Fun at home activities for Preschoolers: Level (High/Medium/Low)

Activity Ideas for Level

Brain Dance
• Do the Brain Dance using different levels for different patterns.

Movement Activities
• Create an obstacle course in your house that requires your child to move through different levels (e.g. Crawl low under a chair, jump high over a pillow, medium walks balancing along a string). Let your child create an obstacle course that you must travel through.
• Take a favourite action song (e.g. The hokey pokey, If your happy and you know it, Clap your hands together, etc.) and add movements and actions with different levels (“ If you’re happy and you know it clap up high/down low”, etc).
• Blow bubbles: Encourage your child to stretch, jump, and leap for high bubbles, twirl, run, and dance through medium bubbles, and roll, stomp, and pop low bubbles (we love the Bubble Mix from Gymboree for a non-toxic, non-staining bubbles solution that makes tonnes of bubbles).

Other Activities
• Go to the park and discover all the levels at the playground!
• Play I Spy and use levels as one of the hints (e.g.I spy something that is big, and green, and low to the ground).
• Collect different items from nature (leaves, sticks, berries, pine cones, etc.) and make and make a collage placing the items, high, medium, or low depending on where you found them.

Boys need dance as much as girls

I just got back from a wonderful day at St.Boniface School as a guest presenter at the Arts Alive Conference. This amazing one day event invited elementary school students from Catholic Schools across Edmonton to participate in a day full of Fine Arts activities they might not be able to experience on a regular basis. What a fabulous way to engage young, creative minds and expose them to the gifts and joy that the Fine Arts offer.

While I was fortunate to get to share our new Salsa Kids program with over 100 children today, I must admit I was overjoyed to have many boys in my sessions today. In fact many of these boys were some of my most energetic and enthusiastic participants. This delighted me as boys are generally in the minority when it comes to my dance programs and dance in general.

This is a very unfortunate situation. We seem to be in a time in our western culture where dance has become a feminized activity. Boys are not encouraged to express themselves through movement, unless they are participating in sports. For some reason over the past 100 years dance has become an acceptable pass time only for girls and women. Boys and men who are interested in dance have often been strongly discouraged by friends and family members. The many benefits of dance seem to be ignored for boys.

Historically dance has been a form of expression meant to pass along culture, music, celebration and history. Not only did men and women dance together but men danced alone and in groups, passing along these traditions and expressions to their sons. In many parts of the world this approach remains a large part of culture and life, where families and communities dance together. Dance is a social activity where people learn to collaborate, work as a team, and respect each other, in many ways very similar to sports.

Also, let's not forget the physical benefits of dance. In the last 30 years Canadians' fitness levels have continued to decline at a rapid rate as a new study from Health Canada has revealed. Our children's generation will be the first whose life expectancy is less than that of their parents due to obesity related illness and disease. Dance encompasses endurance, strength, and flexibility, all critical to overall health and wellness. For boys who do not enjoy sports, want to express themselves through movement, and enjoy music, dance would seem an excellent way to promote fun physical activity. But parents hesitate putting their sons in dance for fear of the social stigma, which has left us with a generation of young women who love to dance and no male partners in sight.

My hope is that as dance becomes more popular in mainstream culture thanks to shows like "So You Think You Can Dance" and "Dancing with the Stars" we will start to see more and more boys and men getting involved with dance. When I attended this year's concert tour of SYTYCD Canada I had to chuckle every time a male tour member would come on stage as the predominately female audience went crazy! Women love a man who can dance. Male dancers are amazing athletes! They are strong and powerful! Even my husband has said to his teenaged, younger brother, he wished he'd spent more time in dance class in his young adult years as it is a skill so many men lack, yet so many women find desirable. Not that getting a date should be the only reason why boys participate in dance (although it might be the ticket to getting more men involved initially).

As Anne Green Gilbert discusses in her article Boys Need Dance: A Balance of Strength and Grace when dance is taught using a concept based approach it can help boys develop their emotional intelligence, increase self esteem, and even give them the skills to become better athletes overall.

The way dance is presented seems especially important in continuing to foster a love of dance in boys if we are to change the current cultural views of males and dance. For example, I was a guest instructor in a Analysis of Movement course this fall at the university. I was teaching the practical section on aesthetic movement. Previously this section of the course had always been focused on the students creating Creative Movement pieces. But the professor contracted me to try a new approach by using Hip Hop dance to complete the same project for one the classes. Upon evaluating the projects and grades for both the class that did the assignment using Creative Movement and my class that used Hip Hop, the professor noted that the students outcomes where very similar, but the male students' level of enjoyment and overall participation was much higher in my class. By offering the male students the experience of participating in a culturally current, male inclusive style, they had the opportunity to enjoy dance without social acceptance anxieties.

By using a concept driven teaching approach and focusing on styles that appeal to boys in my classes I hope to open the doors for more boys (and maybe their Dads!) to get involved in dance. Because the real truth is that boys and girls equally experience happiness and joy when participating in dance, and that is what's important.

J'Adore Dance New Studio Opening in April!

Just over 3 years ago I was registering the name J'Adore Dance, excited at the possibilities of melding my greatest loves, teaching, fitness, family, and dance! With a 6 month old baby I had no idea my dreams of one day owning my own dance fitness and wellness studio would come true so quickly!

I have worked very hard over the last 3 years building our business and programs. My focus has always been to provide our clients with the highest quality, innovative programs, the best customer service, and a personal experience. I am so thankful to our clients who have been with us since the beginning and have continued to support our programs as we have grown and expanded!

We will be leaving our current home in the Riverbend Athletics Club at the end of the winter session and opening our new bigger studio in Lendrum Place (5708 111St). Many will recognize this location as the home to Sunterra, Cosy Peaches, C'est 2, Jack's Grill, and many other wonderful shops and services. We are thrilled to be sharing our home with such well established businesses, many of which are unique to Edmonton.

Our new location will offer:

  • a more central location
  • store front access (no more stairs to lug up babies/toddlers and tired bodies after dance class)
  • a bright open environment
  • a larger studio
  • same floor washroom
  • ample parking
  • directly on the new South LRT line
  • minutes from Southgate Shopping center

Along with our current programs you have come to love, in the spring we will be adding the following to our line up:

  • Salsa Kids (ages 6-10) and Salsa Kids Jr (ages 3-5)
  • Fit Hop Totz (ages 3-5) and Fit Hop Teenz (Ages 11-15)
  • Core Fusion Pilates
  • Yoga
  • FITMOM
  • Just Us Girls (Ages 7-10)
  • Mommy Connections
  • Lunch Time and Early Morning Programs

I will keep you updated as we continue our journey to provide Edmonton Families with the best dance fitness and wellness programming available! Stay tuned for Grand Opening Giveaways and Promotions!

Brain Dance for Ages 2-4

Brain Dance -The Warm up

Anne Green Gilbert created the concept of the BrainDance in 2000. The BrainDance is  based on the fundamental movement patterns all humans discover in the first year of life. These movement patterns  ”wire the central nervous system by laying the foundations for appropriate behavior and attention, eye convergence necessary for reading, sensory-motor development, and more.” (Anne Green Gilbert, Brain Compatible Dance Education, 2006).

In essence these 8 developmental movement patterns lay the foundation for future learning. However the importance of going through these patterns does not end at 1 year of age. The BrainDance was created as a way to warmup both the body and the brain, to prepare individuals for continued and new learning, with mind and body integrated. The BrainDance helps individuals focus, explore the connections and relationships between body parts and the mind, and re-energize, all aspects critical for learning and daily life.

Here are the basic 8 sequential patterns of the BrainDance
1. Breath- take 5-6 deep breaths in and out
2. Tactile- squeeze, tap, pat, brush, scratch all body parts
3. Core- Distal- Reach out with toes, fingers, head, tail and then curl back to your core.
4. Head-Tail- Move head and tail separately and together in all planes, wiggle spine.
5.Upper-Lower-Move all parts in the Upper body, then move all parts in the Lower body
6. Body Sides- Move all parts on the right side of the body, then move all parts on the left side of the body, do horizontal eye tracking
7.Cross Lateral- Move across midline and connect upper and lower body  quadrants do vertical eye tracking
8.Vestibular-Move off balance with spins, rolls, swings, dips, and tips on all levels.
This is obviously a very clinical version of the BrainDance. In our IntelliDance classes we will be exploring the BrainDance sequence as a fun warm up using age appropriate songs, rhymes, and movement activities.

IntelliDance Brain Dance for ages 2-4

1.Breath: Bubble Gum, Bubble Gum
“Bubble Gum, Bubble Gum in a dish,
How many blows do my dancers wish?”

2.Tactile: Hickory Dickory Dock
“Hickory Dickory Dock,
the Mouse tapped up the clock.
The clock struck 1 (clap once),
the mouse tapped down,
Hickory Dickory Dock”

“Hickory Dickory Dock,
the Mouse squeezed up the clock.
The clock struck 2 (clap twice),
the mouse squeezed down,
Hickory Dickory Dock”

“Hickory Dickory Dock,
the Mouse brushed up the clock.
The clock struck 3 (clap three times),
the mouse said “weeeee!”(one big long brush down body),
Hickory Dickory Dock”

“Hickory Dickory Dock,
the Mouse poked up the clock.
The clock struck 4 (clap four times),
the mouse said “no more!”,
Hickory Dickory Dock”

3.Core Distal: Twinkle twinkle little star
“Twinkle twinkle little star (reaching out to distal)
How I wonder what you are? (curling into core)
Up above the word so high,(reaching out to distal)
Like a diamond in the sky (curling into core, finger in diamond shape)
Twinkle twinkle little star (reaching out to distal)
How I wonder what you are? (curling into core)”

4.Head/Tail: Hey Diddle Diddle
“Hey Diddle Diddle (on all fours circle head and tail)
The cat and the fiddle (arch back in cat stretch)
The cow jumped over the moon. (come onto knees, head back, arch back)
The little dog laughed to see such sport (on all fours, shake head and tail laterally)
And the dish ran away with the spoon. (crawl)”

5.Upper/Lower: Itsy, bitsy Spider
“The Itsy bitsy spier marched up the water spout. (lower- march on the spot)
Down came the rain and washed the spider out. (upper- fingers rain down body)
Out came the sun and dried up all the rain (upper-arms stretch and sway side to side)
And the itsy bitsy spider marched up the spout again.”(lower- march on the spot)

6.Body sides: London Bridges
“London Bridges falling down, falling down, falling down.
London Bridges falling down, (holding hands, rocking body side to side)
My fair dancers (slide together to side).
Build it up with bricks and clay, bricks and clay, bricks and clay.
Build it up with bricks and clay, (holding hands, rocking body side to side)
My fair dancers (slide together to side).

7.Cross Lateral: Shoe a little horse
“Shoe a little horse,
Shoe a little mare,
With a tap, tap here
and a tap, tap there.” Repeat
(Sitting or standing, for each line hand reaches across body to opposite to foot and tap)

8.Vestibular: Twisting in the Washing Machine
“Twist, twist, twist in the washing machine,
twist, twist, twist, until we're clean. (feet planted, twist body side to side)
Spin and stop! (spin in one direction and stop) Repeat

Rhythms help babies with neural development

Salsa Mamacitas have been experiencing the benefits of Salsa Babies for the last 3 years including:

  • Gentle yet effective, low impact, high intensity exercise post-partum
  • Toning of thighs, glutes, core, and arms
  • Prevention and treatment of baby blues and post-partum depression
  • A great way to socialize with other moms and babies
  • A great way to get back in shape and shed pounds without the guilt of leaving baby
  • The soothing and bounding experience of babywearing

But did you know how much your baby benefits from taking a Salsa Babies class, even if they fall asleep? Researchers in Europe has finished a 3 year study concluding that exposing babies to music and rhythmic patterns and changes even while sleeping aides their language development and general neural development.

Click here read the whole article on the Daily Mail Online.

Fun at home activities for Preschoolers: Size (Big and Small)

Movement Activities

  • Find a piece of contrasting music. For one section dance big, for the other section dance small. Use imagination to add excitement to the activity, be giants and elves!
  • Practice making big and small shapes. Pretend to be balloon filling up and leaking air, be plants growing from a small seed to a big plant, be big snowmen and melt in the sun getting smaller.
  • Take a favourite song and dance activity (the Hokey-Pokey, Itsy Bitsy Spider, etc.) and use size, sometimes dancing big and other times dancing small. Ask your child which way they prefer dancing.

Other Activities:

  • After dancing like elves/giants, balloons, plants, etc, draw a big and small picture
  • Use clay or playdough to create big and small shapes
  • Sort laundry, toys, recyclable items into big and small piles
  • Go on a walk find some big and small items in nature and make a collage
  • At the grocery store discuss which items are big and small. To make it a game bring a tally sheet, mark for each item bought a check on the big or small column.

Food Bank Drive a Huge Success!

Thanks so much to all of our fabulous clients who brought in food bank donations for our Back to School Food Drive! We were able to accumulate a very large donation for the food bank. My husband Chris can definitely attest to this as he was the lucky guy who got to carry the bags upon bags of food up the stairs from our studio and deliver them to the Food Bank.

As parents we were able to use this as an educational opportunity for our 3 year old Bria, who accompanied her Daddy to the Food Bank and helped unload the food. She was very excited to learn that this food was going to help children in Edmonton who may otherwise be hungry. We were very happy to be able to give her this experience and continue our efforts to raise a compassionate, global citizen.

Dancing from the Heart for the Edmonton Food Bank

 It's been awhile since I have been able to do a blog post with how busy we have been working on opening our new studio location in Riverbend and continuing to expand our range of programming for fall. I promise to update the blog more regularly in the next few months, but am very excited to be writing about our next community involvement endeavor. 

Every September hundreds of Edmonton children will start the school year hungry. Having worked in an inner city school before starting J'Adore Dance I am well aware of the harsh realities these children will face every day. Proper nutrition is vital for early brain development and academic success, as well a physical and emotional health. Ensuring the Edmonton Food Bank has a good stock of nutritional food in its stores gives Edmonton's most valuable resource, our children and youth, a better chance for resilience and success.

It has always been important to me that J'Adore Dance make an effort to give back to our community and continue to help make Edmonton one of the best cities in the world to live! We will be collecting donations for the Edmonton Food Bank for the month of September. There are a few ways you can get involved:

1. Drop off a donation to our new J'Adore Dance, Fitness and Wellness Studio in the Riverbend Athletic club between August 31- September 30. You can find the address and map to our new studio in the contact section under locations.

2. Come to one of our $5.00 + Food Bank donation classes at the new studio between September 1- 9. A full listing on the classes is available on the main page of the website. Pre-registration is required.

3. Come to one of our free trial classes in Edmonton and greater area between September 14-18. A full listing on the classes is available on the main page of the website. Pre-registration is required.

Thank you so much for you support! Let's help the Edmonton Food Bank give our kids a great start at a new school year!

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